Long Distance Relationship

hye guys, warghh...finally its holiday but tomorrow im off to Pulau Pangkor, I have to attend a course. well, we leave it there, today im going to tell you guys about a type of a relationship. Well, in relationship, nobody gonna expect what's going to happen kan, so any kind of precaution is good to build a strong relationship aite? hehe..
As for today, Long Distance Realationship, well, as u guys know, this ling distance sometimes makes a couple to break up just because they didnt trust each other, well korg kne tau, a relationship is not all about saying I LOVE YOU or I MISS YOU.....its about trust and understanding ok, So backoff if u dont have the key to a realtionship, dont make others suffers of what u did. Again, out of the topic...haha...ok2,... here's are the tips for a long distance realtionship yg ak bace on a magazine, cant remember what is the magazine but yeah moving on.....proceed.

    First of all , Have a PLAN, Plan a holiday together. You could perhaps meet halfway. Know exactly when the net time you wull be meeting up is. Should it be in a month time, six month's or even one year's time. So at least you have something to work towrads and look foward to. Most failed LDRs I know those without a timeline. You dont know when you'll pull a neet up next time so its important to have a timeline for when both will be in the same country for a long term. It need not be cast in stonebut at least make plans!
    Next, Stock up international phone cards. But nowadays, skype is better.whatever condition it is, communication is the key to the bond.if its across borders or on the bed and in an LDRs, the regular phone call is when you keep track of each other's lives and growth. Keeps tabs on each other's lives by utilising all this great technology around us!
    Proceed, photograph. yeah, this one i like, taking pictures...hehe..well its in my nerve kann....Take a plenty of photographs. Email those photos to the other half so while you're both making new friends and having new experiencess, you still can share them with each other. Couples drift apart when they feel that they no longer have anything in common or when they feel that they no nothing about their partner's.
    Do an activity together, haha...yeah, u guys maybe think that this is weird aite? when you're thousand miles away, yeah it sounds almost impossible but.....we have the technologies around us, use it wisely. another idea is if you're in different cities, u can watch a tv show or tv programma togther at the same time. Just plan it and you'll feel it.
    Moving on, suprise gift as a reminder. haa, this one is interesting. this will surely earns you brownie points as this gesture shows that you're thoughtful and thinking of them.
Together with all of this, Be Honest and upfront. We all know that being apart of each other can make either or both parties in a relationship feel vulnerable and it's not distrustful of you to seek reassurance. There might've been time you've wondered if the relationship is working out, or if your girlfriend getting too close to that cute guy from her college,be honest if you have doubts dont keep it all inside. Besides its better to ask than assume.

i guess thats all..if any addition i'll just add on this post. For those who has this kind of a relationship, beware and use this tips ok..... no harm if we give it a try...rather than dont do anything kann.....

daaa~ love u guys so much

Its happening again....the past.

hey guys, i dont know what am i writing tonight, i just feel like IT kann...kott...AIYOKTATAYOK......wek:P
ape nie...guys, i cant really explain how i felt right now, but it's just so complicated, its not its anoyying or disturbing cuma, when it comes to this kind of feeling, it makes you think.

WHY?

WHAT?

WHEN?

WHO?

WHERE?

HOW?

huhuhu.....all of the question is running around the brains lobby.....usually we get the questions from people but when we just question it to ourself, its just felt very different and what's that word...haa...RARE!! haha..now im being WEIRD......lalala.....
EXBRAIPSYDER!! is that even a word..haha..best kan..when can create our own word that sounds really alone. kann.... haha...weeerrddddd.....u just know it...
back to the top, im back to the past, i guess the past happens again so that i can undo the mistakes but this time is the time to change everything and make it a very meaningful one.

this is short but i know it tells a lot..bye guys...au revoir.~waving~

Examination Week!!

Good morning guysss!!! haa....dah agak lame xtulis on this blog.... huhu... you know, we just need the right time to write somethng...byk yg dipkirkan tp xtertulis....bleh je busy with FB and twitter kann...ble bkk the blog rse cam kosong....ni pn baru pas gi men basketball skjap..its just feels so good playing basketball in the morning....tp bleh plak tbe2 ujan hahaha....back on the blog, so i guess i have to write somethng....its useless if you have a blog but x update lgsg... i guess now is the right time...haa...its raining...i always write when its raining...somehow rain does give me INSPIRESHEN.....haha.....

Starting this thursday is my first final paper.....Engineering Mathematics 2...woohoo,....cuak pn ade..but the preparation has been made... kte hanya perlu tawakal...insyaallah mendapat keberkatan.... well guys, its semester 4 now... 
no more pray2..*PCK style...
Papa  ckap " study hard, jgn men2,...ti kne bayar blik duit yg ko pinjam 2.... so dapat 3.5 leh clear trus" haa...ni yg payah ni bila parents dah letak harapan kat kita kan..well..our job is make them proud... do our best....think of what they had sacrifice for us.... all they ask is to excell in our life...by achieving the grades, we will manage our life in the future....if they can sacrifice...why cant us..tul x...?  the conclusion is just try our best to be the best...... no matter how bad they have done are to us or how much we hate them, they are still our parents....haa... tp kan....final sem ni dah la 7 paper...warghh!!! cam tertekan gk ar....7 papers in 9 days..gila kan... there's almost no space to breathe...i just have to hold my breathe longer......
INNNN.........OUTTT! huhhh......:D
woohoo.... chill rafi, this only last for like a week...then u're off for HOLIDAY!! yeay...hahaha....just get too excited..... tp cuti pn cam xcuti jer...kne gi kursus la,latihan pusat la n debate age....wergghh*screaming but xbukak mulut...c: hish..xpe2... pape pon...kte ENJOY...haha tgk 2....excited age...haa..
AIYOKTATAYOK *japanese version....
hurmmm....pnat orh...asyik2 mlam msti berjaga...yela somebody called me a NOCTURNAL kann...haha...kne la admit kn....  huhu... but i know all of this happens to all universities students when they tend to stay up late at nite finishing their assignments.... huuu...here's the schedule of my examination final paper :-

 
haa....the seats pon kdang2 makes me nervous...i really dont like to be in the front...is not that i want to cheat or anythng but is just make us so tensed up sitting in front looking at the prefect of the hall staring at us...especially when the 'watcher' come to the table and look at what i was answering...likee...errrr..... staring at my ugly writings n all... pas2 mula la terpikiir..."ape la budak ni buat, dah la tulisan buruk....salah plak tu dia jawab"...arrghh...... and will start erasing the answer and do it all over again....argghh....dah la tension and its a waste of time...eee..... Dear Admin, if u're listening, dont ever there put me in the front seat or i will curse u to poverty...haha...kejam nya....wekk:P hehe.. that just it kann....anyhow,
Hot to go aumm!!
H.O.T T.O.G.O Aummm.......
arrrr.......* is that a tiger..haha...sounds more like a cat..hihi....

K laa...i guess thats all for now.....im SU RE i'll write more if i have the time...huhu..... adios amigos et senorita.... purfavorr!! c;

Its raining....

Hey guys, just so u know...its almost 4 in the morning right now....me now at mamak watching football (man utd vs newcastle) with somal...haha....just so bored so sje nk tulis during watching football...haha..kinda inspiring watching football in the rain while writing my blog...anyway lately my life turns out to be pale....ther's only black and white...no colours.... Just need something to cheer me up...i guess it will take a very long time for that to happen...i really need my friends right now...a real friend i mean, bkn kwan2 yg dtg mse ak sng jer....wat skit ati jer.... Without u guys, i just cant make it this far... Its so cold right now, same as how i felt right this very moment... Cant really feel myself and what am i going to do next..i lost my steps and tracks. Is it a wrong decision or it is just a part of the obstacles that i have to face after all that i have done. All the wrong doings...that i really regret...i recieved my lesson and i really had enough. Im worried because i keep saying this to myself but still, it doesnt corrode because of fatigueness.... We just have to earn that happiness kann.... 

            Well guys, here's a thing, we must be truthful to ourselves ok, mybe its hard to express the truth cause truth hurts but, one lie stands could destroy every happiness in the world. So guys, scream your heart out if u want to, dont keep it to yourself. But think properly first cause you really dont want to mess up with your own shit aite? Haha...blah..blah..blah... Guys, ak tau korg mesti selalu dgr ni kan "ckap je lebih, buat tak jugak"...yea,thats true...it happens to a lot of people, but guys think again, those words that they couldnt even do it sometimes does make sense right? Mmg la that somebody xmampu nak buat tp at least they did thought of it, compare to those guys that never admit their mistakes and their wrong doings...so keep your mouth shut if dont know anything OK!!

        I guess thats all for now, nak continue tgk man utd...hehe...not really a big fan but i am a fan of man utd...glory2 man united...hahaha,,,=)

au revoir

Ranks and Position

Welding and Quality Inspection

Hey guys, its been a while since i write on this blog, huhu... ok2.... the purpose of this blog mse first ak nk buat dlu is to tell u guys a bout My life...sbb 2 ak nk cter kat korg the latest that happen in my life sume.... huhu...sbnr ye byk bnd yg ak nk cter kat korg sume... but i just dont have the time n 'mood' to write it...xpe la...tonight is the time kot...huhu...

        ok2...last 2 week there was this meeting of WQI club (Welding and Quality Inspection), my course actually....so cam ak dtg la....sbb ak cam salu gak involve in all the activities..AJK..ahha.. all the seniors cam dah knal ak sume..so mlam 2 ak ajak la a few of my frens skali, my classmates..zaim, afiq n syahmi.... so cam mlam 2 ak igt kn bese la..pelantikan jwatankuasa baru....  but apparently cam xde sambutan sume...agak cdeyh ar... tp nk wat cmne...kne plak wat meeting ari jumaat pas2 ari ahd 2 ade test math, so cam rmai bge excuse ckap nk stdy, byk assignment... so bge dorg "STUDY COMES FIRST",hahahha.....funny kan that statement...padehal sume org tau..student, bese la...study last minute...age2 guys....kaaann....so korg xyah la nk gebang....mlas ckap je mlas...dah pham sgt gn keletah korg * tul ke ayat ak nie....haha...pape jela.. anyway...moving on to the meeting...mula2 start cam bese la..the VP jd pengerusi of that meeting..a few talks from seniors...huhu..byk gak useful info dpat dri senior....."abg pasnie nk keje gn abg la."..haha.... so cam xrugi la dtg kann..... pas2 dah hbis sume speech n news....trus wat pemilihan bru untuk jwatankuasa..... so first skali dorg nk lantik the new presiden..huuhuu... tp VP wat bang bang boom plak..haha...sptot nye yg pgang Mr. Pres dak2 senior kan,,,,sem6..tbe2 dier ckap yg dorg xnk pgang sbb dorg next sem dah nk FYP..so nk xnk dak semester 4 yg kne pgang that jawatan...haha..mse 2 cam..wah..mati aku.... ak diam jer...mse dak2 nie nominate name, xde sorg pn sdar yg ak wujud....tbe2 the old pres sbut name ak...aduh....bikin kantoi la...bru nk terlepas...so cam ade la 4 org yg terpilih...so before voting, sume calon kne la g dpan perkenalkan diri... ak jd yg last....so the first 3 introduce themselves cam bese la...smpi kat ak... sume xnk dgr...dorg ckap..." ko xyah ckap la rafi, sume dh knal ko..." haha... malu siot time 2....segan pon ade....haha..then mse undi 2..... korg tau2 je la..sah2 dak ni sume nk ak jd presiden...there u have it,,,the new WQI presiden, ME....aduh..rse cam beban pn ade tp dorg cam dah pilih ak...so cam jadi je la...aduh,....tp yg pling ak segan bila ak kne lead all the members of the club...ak dah la muda....so cam rmai je yg lagi matured n age berpengalaman...sumpah segan gle... but i guess we cant gain experience if we dont take the challenge kan....so pas2 dorg suh ak bge speech..haha....serius xtau nk ckap ape...ak pn membebel..nsib bek xkua those english words,..haha.... so cam ckap pnjang2 pn xgune,...buang mase..so ckap kjap je la...a lil of intro as a PRES than dah.... haa...so pasni byk la commitment ak...huhu...im not used to be in such a big commitment..korg yg knal ak dah lame msti tau ak cmne...

miss my guitar

Hmm....guys, klu korg nk tau, ak bkn xnk pegang jawatan nie sume, ak nak sgt2 as in ak nk amik pgalaman...cuma stu jer ak pkir..kdang2 ak pkir yg ak terlalu muda for something that is so big such as being a pres...like i mention td about leading the whole club yg ahli2 sume nyer age tua dri ak....even yg junior pn sebaya....haha...gle arh....tggu la this july, new intake...age rmai yg msuk....perghh...besar nyer tanggungjwab aku..ya allah, tlg lah hamba mu ini yang sgt lemah...sesungguhnya aku tau segala yang kau beri adalah cabaran dan hidayat, ke memohon keberkatan dan pertolongan dari mu, sesungguhnya kau maha pengasih lagi maha penyayang...:)

kwan2,kaum keluarga sume, please support me k..xde korg xtau la..i just cant stand by myself....

till then...see ya...:)

10 PETANDA DIA JODOH KITA.......

ak ckap sal bnd ni bkn la sbb ak pkir nk kawin tp just nak berkongsi ilmu...ilmu kat dunia ni xkan pernah habis...so xyah la kita nak kedekut ilmu...korg tau tak yang segala ilmu yang kita dapat nie hanya utnuk membimbing kita atas dunia nie...sebabtu tuhan jadi kan akal untuk kita beza kan yang mne yang baik dan yang mane yg buruk....xsalah klu kte ingin mengetahui pelbagai perkara tetapi asal kan kita tahu untuk menjaga diri kita dari terpengaruh dgn bnd2 yang tidak berkenaan dan ;ebih truk lagi klu bnd 2 merosakkan diri sendiri....
dah2..moving on to the blog..hehe..tersasar plak...membebel jer keje....

 Jodoh adalah perkara yang sudah ditetapkan oleh Allah yang maha Esa. Tetapi bagaimana kita mengetahui dia memang ditakdirkan untuk kita? Allah SWT mengurniakan manusia telinga untuk mendengar, mata untuk melihat dan aka untuk berfikir. Jadi gunakan sebaik-baiknya bagi mengungkapkan rahsia cinta yang ditakdirkan. Dua manusia yang rasa mereka dapat hidup bersama dan memang dijodohkan pasti memiliki ikatan emosi , spiritual dan fizikal antara keduanya. Apabila bersama, masing-masing dapat merasai kemanisan cinta dan saling memerlukan antara satu sama lain. Lalu gerak hati mengatakan, dialah insan yang ditakdirkan untuk bersama. Benarkah ia seperti yang diperkatakan?

Berikut adalah 10 petanda yang menunjukkan dia adalah jodoh kita.

1.Bersahaja

Kekasih kita itu bersikap bersahaja dan tidak berlakon. Cuba perhatikan cara dia berpakaian, cara percakapan, cara ketawa serta cara makan dan minum. Adakah ia spontan dan tidak dikawal ataupun kelihatan pelik. Kalau ia nampak kurang selesa dengan gayanya, sah dia sedang berlakon. Kadang-kadang, kita dapat mengesan yang dia sedang berlakon. Tetapi, apabila dia tampil bersahaja dan tidak dibuat-buat, maka dia adalah calon hidup kita yang sesuai. Jika tidak, dia mungkin bukan jodoh kita.

2.Senang bersama

Walaupun kita selalu bersamanya, tidak ada sedikit pun perasaan bosan, jemu ataupun tertekan pada diri kita. Semakin hari semakin sayang kepadanya. Kita sentiasa tenang, gembira dan dia menjadi pengubat kedukaan kita. Dia juga merasainya. Rasa senang sekali apabila bersama. Apabila berjauhan, terasa sedikit tekanan dan rasa ingin berjumpa dengannya. Tidak kira siang ataupun malam, ketiadaannya terasa sedikit kehilangan.

3.Terima kita seadanya

Apapun kisah silam yang pernah kita lakukan, dia tidak ambil peduli. Mungkin dia tahu perpisahan dengan bekas kekasihnya sebelum ini kita yang mulakan. Dia juga tidak mengambil kisah siapa kita sebelum ini. Yang penting, siapa kita sekarang. Biarpun dia tahu yang kita pernah mempunyai kekasih sebelumnya, dia tidak ambil hati langsung. Yang dia tahu, kita adalah miliknya kini. Dia juga sedia berkongsi kisah silamnya. Tidak perlu menyimpan rahsia apabila dia sudah bersedia menjadi pasangan hidup kita.

4.Sentiasa jujur

Dia tidak kisah apa yang kita lakukan asalkan tidak menyalahi hukum hakam agama. Sikap jujur yang dipamerkan menarik hati kita. Kejujuran bukan perkara yang boleh dilakonkan. Kita dapat mengesyaki sesuatu apabila dia menipu kita. Selagi kejujuran bertakhta di hatinya, kebahagiaan menjadi milik kita. Apabila berjauhan, kejujuran menjadi faktor paling penting bagi suatu hubungan. Apabila dia tidak jujur, sukar baginya mengelak daripada berlaku curang kepada kita. Apabila dia jujur, semakin hangat lagi hubungan cinta kita. Kejujuran yang disulami dengan kesetiaan membuahkan percintaan yang sejati. Jadi, dialah sebaik-baik pilihan.

5.Percaya Mempercayai

Setiap orang mempunyai rahsia tersendiri. Adakalanya rahsia ini perlu dikongsi supaya dapat mengurangkan beban yang ditanggung. Apabila kita mempunyai rahsia dan ingin memberitahu kekasih, adakah rahsia kita selamat di tangannya? Bagi mereka yang berjodoh, sifat saling percaya mempercayai antara satu sama lain timbul dari dalam hati nurani mereka. Mereka rasa selamat apabila memberitahu rahsia-rahsia kepada kekasihnya berbanding rakan-rakan yang lain. Satu lagi, kita tidak berahsia apa pun kepadanya dan kita pasti rahsia kita selamat. Bukti cinta sejati adalah melalui kepercayaan dan kejujuran. Bahagialah individu yang memperoleh kedua-duanya.

6.Senang Bekerjasama

Bagi kita yang inginkan hubungan cinta berjaya dan kekal dalam jangka masa yang panjang, kita dan dia perlu saling bekerjasama melalui hidup ini. Kita dan kekasih perlu memberi kerjasama melakukan suatu perkara sama ada perkara remeh ataupun sukar. Segala kerja yang dilakukan perlulah ikhlas bagi membantu pasangan dan meringankan tugas masing-masing. Perkara paling penting, kita dan dia dapat melalui semua ini dengan melakukannya bersama-sama. Kita dan dia juga dapat melakukan semuanya tanpa memerlukan orang lain dan kita senang melakukannya bersama. Ini penting kerana ia mempengaruhi kehidupan kita pada masa hadapan. Jika tiada kerjasama, sukar bagi kita hidup bersamanya. Ini kerana, kita yang memikul beban tanggungjawab seratus peratus. Bukankah ini menyusahkan?

7.Memahami diri kita

Bagi pasangan yang berjodoh, dia mestilah memahami diri pasangannya. Semasa kita sakit dia bawa ke klinik. Semasa kita berduka, dia menjadi penghibur. Apabila kita mengalami kesusahan, dia menjadi pembantu. Di kala kita sedang berleter, dia menjadi pendengar. Dia selalu bersama kita dalam sebarang situasi. Tidak kira kita sedang gembira ataupun berduka, dia sentiasa ada untuk kita. Dia juga bersedia mengalami pasang surut dalam percintaan. Kata orang, "lidah sendiri lagikan tergigit", inikan pula suami isteri'. Pepatah ini juga sesuai bagi pasangan kekasih. Apabila dia sentiasa bersama kita melalui hidup ini di kala suka dan duka, di saat senang dan susah, dialah calon yang sesuai menjadi pasangan hidup kita.

8.Tampilkan kelemahan

Tiada siapa yang sempurna di dunia ini. Tipulah jika ada orang yang mengaku dia insan yang sempurna daripada segala sudut. Pasti di kalangan kita memiliki kelemahan dan keburukan tertentu. Bagi dia yang bersedia menjadi teman hidup kita, dia tidak terlalu menyimpan rahsia kelemahannya dan bersedia memberitahu kita. Sudah tentu bukan senang untuk memberitahu dan mengakui kelemahan di hadapan kekasihnya. Malah, dia tidak segan mempamerkan keburukannya kepada kita. Misalnya, apabila dia bangun tidur ataupun sakit dan tidak mandi dua hari, dia tidak menghalang kita daripada melawatnya.Apabila kita dan dia saling menerima kelemahan dan sifat buruk masing-masing, memang ditakdirkan kita hidup bersamanya.

9.Kata hati

Dengarlah kata hati. Kadangkala, manusia dikurniakan Allah deria keenam yang dapat mengetahui dan memahami perasaan pasangannya. Dengan deria batin ini juga kita dapat saling tahu perasaan masing-masing. Kita dan dia juga dapat membaca fikiran antara satu sama lain dan dapat menduga reaksi dan tindakbalas pada situasi tertentu. Apabila kita yakin dengan pilihan hidup kita, tanyalah sekali lagi. Adakah dia ditakdirkan untuk kita? Dengarlah kata hati dan buatlah pilihan. Serahlah segalanya pada ketentuan yang maha berkuasa.

10.Solat Istikharah dan Tawakkal

Jodoh dan pertemuan semuanya di tangan Allah SWT. Manusia hanya perancang di pentas dunia ini dan skripnya ditulis oleh yang maha esa. Adakalanya, dalam memainkan peranan sebagai pelakon, diberi petunjuk melalui mimpi atau gerak hati. Mimpi memang mainan tidur, tetapi apabila kita melakukan sembahyang Istikharah dan memohon supaya Allah memberikan petunjuk, insya-Allah dengan izinnya kita mendapat petunjukNya. Jika dia pilihan kita, buatlah keputusan sebaiknya. Jika tidak, tolaklah dia dengan baik. Semua yang kita lakukan ini adalah bagi mendapatkan kebahagiaan hidup di dunia. Setelah semuanya diusahakan, berserahlah kepadaNya dan terus berdoa. Ingatlah, nikmat di dunia ini hanya sementara.Nikmat di akhirat adalah kekal selamanya.

Voice, i really love you...im gonna take a good care of you!

1. Rest your speaking voice. Remember that abusing your speaking voice directly affects your singing. Don't yell at football games or at your husband. Talking over traffic noises while on the freeway or speaking over a noisy air conditioner can put a strain on your voice. Don't whisper. This is also hard on your vocal cords. Become aware of how you speak. Listen to yourself.
   
   
2. Drink viscous teas. Tea made from Slippery Elm Bark coats your throat and is greatly soothing. Yogi tea's Throat Comfort is a healthy organic tea that should be part of your vocal hygiene.
   
   
3. Strike a Yoga pose. You don't have to be a Yoga lover to learn a few simple poses to help your voice. Try the Lion Pose to relax and open up the voice.
   
   
4. Wear a turtleneck shirt or sweater. Turtle necks are wonderful protection in the winter or if you have a cold. Keep this handy garment on all year round to keep your voice box warm and ready to sing. Diane Keaton does it, so why can't you? Brian McKnight also wears them all the time.
   
   
5. Sip water when you are performing. If you are on stage don't be afraid to sip between songs. If you sing rock you don't have to be dainty about it. Spray it in your mouth and face! Be theatrical but just make sure the water gets down your throat.
   
   
6. Rest. This step cannot be emphasized enough. Tired bodies and brains do not carry voices well. Sleep promotes maximum cell repair. After a long session of performing your body needs sleep to fix the wear on your throat.
   
   
7. Exercise! A sluggish body diminishes vocal potential.Voices respond well to living in a healthy body. Exercise does not mean you have to stomp and punch yourself into oblivion. Find something you like. Bike riding or tango lessons are good. Swimming is excellent for singers.
   
   guys,this is are the ways to take care of your voice, excellent voice make you a better person ok....believe me cause it just happened to me...
   good luck..:)