Dugaan Friday Morning. =)

Warghh.....sakit nyer perut....pagi dah sakit perut....ni boleh menyebabkan iman tergugat nie.... it is just 8.20 in the morning....its like 11 hours to go....haiyo.... tahan rafi tahan..... im not feeling well today... so tbe2 kalau x tgur tu sory la.... and im going to do my FYP today. Try to finish all the lab works. Caiyok2 rafi....hhehe...

"perut2, jgn lah buat hal ye, saya niat hari ni baik2 jer sume nyer"
I guess i'll see you guys later. Love you guys, Salam 'Alaik

BFF to BF or GF? What does relationship defines?

This post is about the reasons why a bestfriend couldnt be a lover. It's just hard and almost impossible.Keep on reading and you'll know why k. Ak rase ade yg btul and ad yg kurang tepat tapi this is just points of view from people that observe a relationship. You guys can share your experience or leave a comment if u want to k.

1. Tidak sesuai bercinta
Didalam apa sahaja perkara, beterus terang adalah satu cara penyelesaian terbaik. jadi untuk mengelakkan perkara ini terjadi, kamu perlu berterus terang kepadanya bahawa kamu tidak sesuai untuk bercinta dengannya. kamu hanya menganggap dia adalah sahabat karib kamu dunia dan akhirat. Untuk menolak kena ada caranya, jangan sehingga dia rasa terhina kamu menolak cintanya. sampai dengan cara baik serta ayat yang tersusun rapi agar dia faham maksud kamu sebenarnnya.

2. Tidak mampu menghormatinya sebagai kekasih
Kamu juga boleh terangkan padanya sebab utama kamu tidak mungkin dapat bersamanya. Antara alasan yang boleh kamu gunakan ialah menyatakan kepada sekiranya kamu menjadi kekasihnya, kamu tidak mengikut kehendak, arahan dan permintaannya. Malah menghormatinya sebagai kekasih juga pastinya sukar buat diri kamu. Ini kerana persahabatan yang telah lama terjalin membuatkan antara kamu dan dia tidak jurang ketika berbual serta bergurau. jadi daripada bergaduh di kemudian hari, lebih baik kamu dan dia kekal sebagai sahabat. kampu perlu yakinkannya kamu sememangnya tidak sesuai untuknya.

3. Tidak mampu berubah
Mungkin dia telah begitu mengenali kamu dan amat memahami sikap-sikap kamu. jadi kamu tudak perlu lagi berpura-pura berlakon untuk menjaga hatinya. Tunjukkan sahaja sikap sebenar kamu. Katakan padanya kamu tidak mungkin boleh berubah walaupun setelah bergelar kekasihnya, sanggupkah dia menerima kamu seperti diri kamu sekarang? kalau dia sanggup bagaimana pula dengan keluarganya. pastinya dia akan terfikir kamu tidak sesuai untuk dijadikan kekasih. dia pastinya akan memilih seorang yang bersopan santun dan tahu menghormatinya sebagai kekasih.

4. Buat tidak peduli.
Kamu tidak pernah terfikir untuk bercinta dengannya kerena ketika bersahabat pun kamu tidak peduli dengan kehadirannya dalam hidup kamu. teruskan sikap tidak pedulu kamu tersebut. Berkawan seperti biasa anggap saha dia tidak pernah meluahkan apa-apa perasaan pada kamu. Andainya dia cuba untuk mendapatkan jawapan dari kamu sebaiknya kamu cuma mengelakkan daripada membincangkannya. cubalah ubah topik perbualan. lama-kelamaan secara tidak langsung pasti dia akn memahami jawapan yang ingin kamu sampaikan padanya


5. Menyepikan diri seketika
Cuba mengelakkan diri kamu daripa bertembung dengannya di tempat kerja, di sekolah atau tempat kamu dan rakan kamu berkumpul. pastinya dia akan perasan bahawa kamu tidak berminat untuk berkawan dengannya lagi. Jika dia tetap mendesak kamu dan sanggup mengekori ke mana-mana sahaja kamu pergi, terangkan saha padanya kamu perlu bersendirian untuk seketika. lama kelamaan si dia akan bisa menanti jawapan dari mu

6. Pentingkan persahabatan
Jelaskan padanya kamu lebih sayangkan ikatan persahabatan kamu daripada menjadi kekasihnya kerana hubungan kekasih pastinya memerlukan komitmen dan kesetiaan. Sedangkan sebagai sahabat, kamu boleh berkongsi apa sahaja dan tidak perlu ada komitmen yang tinggi dalam hubungan. Jika dia seorang yang rasional, pastinya dia akan memahami maksud yang mahu kamu sampaikan.

7. Beritahu kamu sudah ada calon lain
Nyatakan kepadanya bahawa kamu sudah mempunyaiu calon dan bakal kekasih yang sesuai dengan dirimu. tetapi kamu haris berani menanggung risiko bakal kehilangan sahabat jika dia tidak dapat menerima perjelasan kamu. jika dia sahabat baik kamu, pasti dia akan turut sama mendoakan kebahagiaan kamu. Bukan berdendam semata-mata kamu menolak cintanya.

8. Tidak mahu kehilangan sahabat sebaiknya
Sesekali bertegas dengan sahabat baik kamu pasti akan membawa kebaikan. berani menegakkan perndirian adalah satu sifat yang terpuji. sekurang-kurangnya kemu tidak menipu dia atau diri kamu sendiri. ikut kata hati dan jangan termakan pujuk rayu si dia. katakan padanya kamu tidak akan sama sekali menganggapnya lebih dari seorang sahabat kerana kamu tidak mahu kehilangan sahabat sebaiknya.

So kalau korg rasa benda2 kat tas btul, so btul la tapi ni semua atas pendapat masing2 and straight to the point, hati dan perasaan ni xboleh nak dipaksa. for  me, its hard to fall for someone, because i really  need to know that person better from every angle before i can make her a special person. Because in a relationship, trust and understanding  are very essential . SO, kalau tak kenal org tu , cmne kita nak faham dia kan. As for me, ak amik masa yg pnjang untuk mengenali seseorang tu, memang aku ade ego, tp ak tau ape yg ak buat ni untuk kebaikan aku dan si dia. Im trying to do something for the future.

Thats all from me, see you guys later......love you guys a lot...!!

I just knew

i went through the net, found something that i never expected. Now i Know everything and all i want now is the truth. Hoping for some miracle to happen is almost impossible. Lives in the real life la rafi

Keep On Going? Growing? Giving?

Well guys, everything happens because of a reason. Though u might not happy with the conclusion, dont stop at the finishing line. Look back and see what you have done and earn. From there you can see mistakes and achievement. Those who you dissapoint and those who feel that you are their hero. Be positive.

What happen this two month of semester's break really make my brain and heart work so hard. Its quite impossible for you to know face it. but throughout the reality, its possible. Admit your mistakes and keep on learning. More mistakes, more new things you learn.

well , somehow i changed. Never thought that i would change till this far. I dont know, i just felt that im no more like before.

A little bit Knowledge for Everyone

- JANGAN tidur selepas solat Subuh, nanti rezeki Mahal kerana berpagi-pagi itu membuka pintu Berkat.
- JANGAN makan tanpa membaca BISMILLAH dan DOA makan. Nanti rezeki kita dikongsi syaitan.
-JANGAN tambah perhiasan di badan kerana Allah sudah jadikan Manusia Makhluk yang paling Sempurna
- JANGAN keluar rumah tanpa niat untuk membuat kebaikan.Takut-takut kita mati dalam perjalanan.
- JANGAN pakai sepatu atau selipar yang berlainan pasangan.Makruh dan mewarisi kepapaan.
- JANGAN biarkan Mata liar di perjalanan.. Nanti hati kita gelap diselaputi dosa.
- JANGAN menangguh taubat bila berbuat dosa kerana mati boleh datang bila-bila masa.
- JANGAN ego untuk meminta maaf pada ibu bapa dan sesama manusia kalau memang Kita bersalah.
- JANGAN mengumpat sesama rakan taulan. Nanti rosak persahabatan Kita hilang bahagia.
- JANGAN lupa bergantung kepada ALLAH dalam setiap kerja Kita. Nanti Kita sombong apabila berjaya.Kalau gagal kecewa pula.
- JANGAN bakhil untuk bersedekah. Sedekah itu memanjangkan umur dan memurahkan rezeki Kita.
- JANGAN banyak ketawa. Nanti mati jiwa.
- JANGAN biasakan berbohong, kerana ia adalah ciri-ciri munafik dan menghilangkan kasih orang kepada Kita.
- JANGAN suka menganiaya manusia atau haiwan.. Doa makhluk yang teraniaya cepat dimakbulkan ALLAH.
- JANGAN terlalu susah hati dengan urusan dunia. Akhirat itu lebih utama dan hidup di sana lebih lama dan kekal selamanya.
- JANGAN mempertikaikan kenapa ISLAM itu berkata JANGAN. Sebab semuanya untuk keselamatan Kita

Apologize and New Life

First of all , i wanted to say sorry to eveyone because lately i've been hurting peoples. I dont know how to explain what's going on but i really didnt mean to hurt you guys. Not forgetting to those who support me through out my difficult life now. I think that what may happen next is about having a better life. i know sometimes im being so rude, i raised my ego to high. I dont know how to say it. Jealousy, anger, selfish , pity and etc. Those words that i couldnt bear to live with. I really hope that you people could understand. Its been a while since i got back home. Too busy with commitments and works. Being a part of the Student Representative Council is a very tough things to cooperate with. And one more thing kalau xtegur mcam dulu doesnt mean im ignoring you. Its either i didnt realise ur present or im felt sory and im ashame to talk to you like before. Sometimes i felt that im not being myself anymore. I could not hold myself from changing because its a need. People are judging from top to toe. So as a conclusion, i have to suit myself with the situation and time. There is no doubt that my new way of life makes me a better person but nobody's perfect. There's always going to be floss here and there. So xtegur doesnt mean that i dont care or i dont want to talk to you. I hope u guys understand. Well, thats all from me. I'll write soon. Telling whats happening in my life k. Stay tune...*mcam tgk tv daa....

Love you guys....xoxo

4P

Well, u guys must be asking what is 4P aite?
So let me tell u guys, this 4P is our manifesto throughout the election that is happening in my campus at this very moment. Let me start first with the first P that is 'Perihatin'.

Perihatin

What we are trying to do here is to take care the welfare of the students. We will ensure that every student of our campus get the attention from the management. Hearing all of their problems so that we as the Representative Student Council will try our very best to solve the problem.

Next one is 'Prasarana'. under the this keyword the explaination are as below.

Prasarana

Under this keyword, we are going to follow up what have been done by the previous representatives and yet propose new idea to the management to improve facilities and buildings in MFI. For instant the accomodation and also the classroom. this are essential in keeping up the reputation of the students. Comfortness of the students is much more important in gaining good result. People say, Happy people gives a better production.

Penyokong

We support every voice that came out from the students. We as the representative will voice out and support whatever the things from the students that is relevant towards university's mission and vision. Due to the problems that is mouting lately, we will try our best to get the feedback from the students and we will support fully because we are also like an ordinary student same as you guys.

Last but not least, 'Pemikiran'. Under this keyword explain mostly about out individuality.

Pemikiran

Each and everyone in this world has a brain to think, From what we observe, students in MFI has this one kind of thinking that's differ from other student. Maybe, this is because of what happen inside the management itself. The bond between students are also not that strong. So what happen is that student start to hate and critisize the management's work. Yes, students has the right but wait, please dont abuse the system okay? Another one is that student nowadays in MFI only thought about the grades and marks. They dont realize the importance of the knowledge during doing your bachelor or degree. Maybe only 20% of students do realize this but another 80% just take this as a small matter.  Well, we as the leaders towards tranformation will make sure that the student will be aware of what will they do in the future. We as the representatives will give a good example to the students in managing your future plan and also ypur daily life.

What maybe the best or could may be the worst!

Things are getting complicated nowadays. well to clarify everythng is not an easy task... to make people satisfied with all the things that we have done is so not easy. So, after all that had happen, make it as a lesson so that we won't do it in the future. Let us makes ourselves better than yesterday, because what happen today makes us tomorrow.

p/s: Its been a long time since i wrote anything in this blog. Maybe this is the start for this year. haha.... anyway i still love you guys. you'll always be in my heart. SMILE ALWAYS :D