hye guys, warghh...finally its holiday but tomorrow im off to Pulau Pangkor, I have to attend a course. well, we leave it there, today im going to tell you guys about a type of a relationship. Well, in relationship, nobody gonna expect what's going to happen kan, so any kind of precaution is good to build a strong relationship aite? hehe..
As for today, Long Distance Realationship, well, as u guys know, this ling distance sometimes makes a couple to break up just because they didnt trust each other, well korg kne tau, a relationship is not all about saying I LOVE YOU or I MISS YOU.....its about trust and understanding ok, So backoff if u dont have the key to a realtionship, dont make others suffers of what u did. Again, out of the topic...haha...ok2,... here's are the tips for a long distance realtionship yg ak bace on a magazine, cant remember what is the magazine but yeah moving on.....proceed.
First of all , Have a PLAN, Plan a holiday together. You could perhaps meet halfway. Know exactly when the net time you wull be meeting up is. Should it be in a month time, six month's or even one year's time. So at least you have something to work towrads and look foward to. Most failed LDRs I know those without a timeline. You dont know when you'll pull a neet up next time so its important to have a timeline for when both will be in the same country for a long term. It need not be cast in stonebut at least make plans!
Next, Stock up international phone cards. But nowadays, skype is better.whatever condition it is, communication is the key to the bond.if its across borders or on the bed and in an LDRs, the regular phone call is when you keep track of each other's lives and growth. Keeps tabs on each other's lives by utilising all this great technology around us!
Proceed, photograph. yeah, this one i like, taking pictures...hehe..well its in my nerve kann....Take a plenty of photographs. Email those photos to the other half so while you're both making new friends and having new experiencess, you still can share them with each other. Couples drift apart when they feel that they no longer have anything in common or when they feel that they no nothing about their partner's.
Do an activity together, haha...yeah, u guys maybe think that this is weird aite? when you're thousand miles away, yeah it sounds almost impossible but.....we have the technologies around us, use it wisely. another idea is if you're in different cities, u can watch a tv show or tv programma togther at the same time. Just plan it and you'll feel it.
Moving on, suprise gift as a reminder. haa, this one is interesting. this will surely earns you brownie points as this gesture shows that you're thoughtful and thinking of them.
Together with all of this, Be Honest and upfront. We all know that being apart of each other can make either or both parties in a relationship feel vulnerable and it's not distrustful of you to seek reassurance. There might've been time you've wondered if the relationship is working out, or if your girlfriend getting too close to that cute guy from her college,be honest if you have doubts dont keep it all inside. Besides its better to ask than assume.
i guess thats all..if any addition i'll just add on this post. For those who has this kind of a relationship, beware and use this tips ok..... no harm if we give it a try...rather than dont do anything kann.....
daaa~ love u guys so much
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